Dec 6 Dec 6 “We don't want people to be defined by their ability to reproduce or defined by their body parts.” Sharing Truth Two Abortions, Transgender, Nonbinary, U.S. “The first time, you know, I didn't get emotional at all," Sanchez tells Allure. "During my second abortion, the combination of the doctor misgendering me, and then forcing these heterosexual gender roles on me, made me feel even more erased in the situation, and so it became much more emotional for me.” Read more.