"She asked me 'what brings you here?' I froze not wanting to say the abortion words."

This story is published at Shout Your Abortion.

I’ve had two abortions. Both felt like obvious decisions.

I was very lucky that I knew that was an option for me.

It was a hard experience. It’s hard mourning the loss of someone you can’t really tell people about.

For my first abortion my college doctor referred me to a clinic.

She asked me “what brings you here?” I froze not wanting to say the abortion words.

She then said “you’re pregnant and you don’t want to be”.

I of course said yes and felt finally understood.

The right to have an abortion has given me the right to have a life.

It’s given me the right to decide who I have children with and when I have them. Everyone should have that choice.

"I was married, the mother of two girls, and found myself with another unplanned pregnancy."

"I had a bad childhood and have no family, and I don’t want to continue my genetics on to another person."